{"id":1720,"date":"2024-03-26T03:21:00","date_gmt":"2024-03-26T03:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/?p=1720"},"modified":"2024-03-26T03:25:09","modified_gmt":"2024-03-26T03:25:09","slug":"discovering-what-love-looks-like-jesus-love-healthy-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/?p=1720","title":{"rendered":"Discovering What Love Looks Like: Jesus&#8217; Love &#038; Healthy Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<style>.kb-row-layout-id1398_7e20b1-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id1398_7e20b1-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id1398_7e20b1-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}.kb-row-layout-id1398_7e20b1-3d > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id1398_7e20b1-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id1398_7e20b1-3d > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id1398_7e20b1-3d alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-1-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column1398_9504d7-2d > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1398_9504d7-2d > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1398_9504d7-2d > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1398_9504d7-2d > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1398_9504d7-2d > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1398_9504d7-2d > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1398_9504d7-2d{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1398_9504d7-2d > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1398_9504d7-2d > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1398_9504d7-2d inner-column-1\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<p class=\"has-theme-palette-2-color has-text-color has-small-font-size\">Disclaimer: The content on our website is for informational purposes only and is not legal or medical advice. View the full disclaimer<a href=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/?page_id=1357\" title=\"Disclaimer\"> here. <\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id1720_72d218-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id1720_72d218-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_72d218-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}.kb-row-layout-id1720_72d218-aa > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_72d218-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_72d218-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id1720_72d218-aa alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-1-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column1720_c96949-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_c96949-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_c96949-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_c96949-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_c96949-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_c96949-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_c96949-53{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_c96949-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_c96949-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_c96949-53\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><style>.kb-image1720_935ce9-91.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .kb-image1720_935ce9-91 .kb-image-is-ratio-size{max-width:658px;width:100%;}.wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_935ce9-91.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_935ce9-91 .kb-image-is-ratio-size{align-self:unset;}.kb-image1720_935ce9-91 figure{max-width:658px;}.kb-image1720_935ce9-91 .image-is-svg, .kb-image1720_935ce9-91 .image-is-svg img{width:100%;}.kb-image1720_935ce9-91 .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_935ce9-91\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/18-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Watercolor of a man and woman in profile with nature, hearts, and a cross within them at sunset.\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-1722 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/18-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/18-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/18-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/18-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/18-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/18.jpg 1600w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/1024;\" \/><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/nalahlife.etsy.com\" title=\"Nalah Life\">Nalah Life<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id1720_85f9dd-6a > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id1720_85f9dd-6a > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_85f9dd-6a > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}.kb-row-layout-id1720_85f9dd-6a > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_85f9dd-6a > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_85f9dd-6a > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id1720_85f9dd-6a alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-1-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column1720_4ee3b7-4b > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_4ee3b7-4b > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_4ee3b7-4b > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_4ee3b7-4b > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_4ee3b7-4b > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_4ee3b7-4b > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_4ee3b7-4b{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_4ee3b7-4b > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_4ee3b7-4b > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_4ee3b7-4b\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Easter illuminates the most beautiful example of love and sacrifice, showing us exactly what love looks like through Jesus&#8217; selfless act on the cross. It\u2019s a season that invites us to pause and deeply consider how this pure expression of love shapes our understanding of both love and being loved in healthy ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Jesus\u2019 demonstration of love and his manifestation of the fruits of the spirit present the clearest examples of what love looks like. In fact, the fruits of the spirit (Galatians 5:22-23) guided me in discerning potential partners before I married my wonderful husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Let&#8217;s talk about how Jesus&#8217; ultimate act of love on the cross teaches us about true love, explore the beautiful qualities of love outlined in Galatians 5:22-23, and share some practical advice on identifying and nurturing healthy relationships. Our journey is about drawing closer to understanding the genuine essence of love and how to embrace it fully in our lives.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-ec613634cbb5ce3a1089c9922ace8c1f\" style=\"font-size:30px\">The Ultimate Act of Love<\/h3>\n\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id1720_42716a-fa > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id1720_42716a-fa > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_42716a-fa > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}.kb-row-layout-id1720_42716a-fa > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_42716a-fa > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_42716a-fa > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id1720_42716a-fa alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-1-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column1720_37fd4b-5e > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_37fd4b-5e > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_37fd4b-5e > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_37fd4b-5e > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_37fd4b-5e > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_37fd4b-5e > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_37fd4b-5e{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_37fd4b-5e > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_37fd4b-5e > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_37fd4b-5e\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Easter is a beautiful reminder of Jesus\u2019 ultimate sacrifice-dying on the cross for our sins. I know we hear the \u201cEaster story\u201d many times year after year, but let\u2019s not let what our Saviour did for us ever dull our gratitude. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">I can\u2019t think of a more selfless act of love than another person dying for me.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-image1720_33d60f-3d.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .kb-image1720_33d60f-3d .kb-image-is-ratio-size{max-width:563px;width:100%;}.wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_33d60f-3d.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_33d60f-3d .kb-image-is-ratio-size{align-self:unset;}.kb-image1720_33d60f-3d figure{max-width:563px;}.kb-image1720_33d60f-3d .image-is-svg, .kb-image1720_33d60f-3d .image-is-svg img{width:100%;}.kb-image1720_33d60f-3d .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_33d60f-3d\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1314\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/17-e1711217390588.jpg\" alt=\"Abstract painting of Jesus on the cross with expressive brushstrokes in warm hues.\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-1721 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/17-e1711217390588.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/17-e1711217390588-300x246.jpg 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/17-e1711217390588-1024x841.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/17-e1711217390588-768x631.jpg 768w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/17-e1711217390588-1536x1261.jpg 1536w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1600px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1600\/1314;\" \/><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/nalahlife.etsy.com\" title=\"Nalah Life\">Nalah Life<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">That sacrifice is mind-boggling!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Jesus was without fault or blame, yet endured torture and abuse so that both you and I could be free forever.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">He set the standard for love and sacrifice impeccably high, and I don\u2019t expect us mere humans to ever exceed or ever match what He did.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">But what he did on the cross, and Jesus\u2019 character, are what we can reference when we want to understand what love looks like. This is even more true when you want to determine if a man is spirit led and trying to live a godly life.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-86b6989817572e13b03053e829d7ccdf\" style=\"font-size:30px\">Understanding Love Through the Lens of Galatians 5:22-23<\/h3>\n\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id1720_07003e-77 > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id1720_07003e-77 > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_07003e-77 > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}.kb-row-layout-id1720_07003e-77 > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_07003e-77 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_07003e-77 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id1720_07003e-77 aligncenter wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-2-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column1720_46759b-f8 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_46759b-f8 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_46759b-f8 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_46759b-f8 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_46759b-f8 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_46759b-f8 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_46759b-f8{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_46759b-f8 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_46759b-f8 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_46759b-f8\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">As I mentioned previously, the fruits of the spirit were my go-to criteria for assessing a man\u2019s relationship with God and his spiritual maturity, especially after experiencing an abusive relationship that left me doubting my ability to judge character accurately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Let\u2019s review what the fruits of the spirit are:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\"><strong><em>\u201cBut the fruit of the Spirit [the result of His presence within us] is love [unselfish concern for others], joy, [inner] peace, patience [not the ability to wait, but how we act while waiting], kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such things there is no law.\u201d Galatians 5:22-23 AMP<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column1720_a87b01-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_a87b01-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_a87b01-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_a87b01-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_a87b01-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_a87b01-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_a87b01-53{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_a87b01-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_a87b01-53 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_a87b01-53\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><style>.kb-image1720_9572fb-af .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_9572fb-af\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/19-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Colorful watercolor of a couple surrounded by swirling patterns and heart motifs.\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-1723 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/19-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/19-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/19-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/19-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/19-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/19.jpg 1600w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/1024;\" \/><figcaption>Photo by<a href=\"https:\/\/nalahlife.etsy.com\" title=\" Nalah Life\"> Nalah Life<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">These fruits are key in discerning someone\u2019s character because they are evidence of His presence within us. This means that a person cannot just talk the talk, but they need to walk the walk (in the spirit!), and walk with spiritual <strong>CONSISTENCY<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7a465d0b6a42b67c8bc1fb4993ad2357\" style=\"font-size:30px\">A Guide for What Love Looks Like<\/h3>\n\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id1720_498584-c5 > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id1720_498584-c5 > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_498584-c5 > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}.kb-row-layout-id1720_498584-c5 > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_498584-c5 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_498584-c5 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id1720_498584-c5 alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-1-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column1720_b61014-22 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_b61014-22 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_b61014-22 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_b61014-22 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_b61014-22 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_b61014-22 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_b61014-22{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_b61014-22 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_b61014-22 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_b61014-22\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Let&#8217;s dive deeper into the fruits of the spirit and gain a clearer picture of what they look like in everyday life. Remember that these qualities are reflected in a person\u2019s actions and not just their words.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Love<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">As Christians, we are very familiar with 1 Corinthians 13 as it outlines a detailed biblical description of what love is. A man who genuinely reflects love shows it through consistent <strong>actions<\/strong> and selflessness towards others. He prioritizes the well-being of his loved ones and demonstrates love not just in words but in deeds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Joy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">A joyful person spreads positivity and happiness in their relationships. They approach life with a sense of gratitude and can uplift those around them, even in challenging times. Joy is not the same as happiness. Happiness is an emotion that can come and go based on circumstances. Joy is an inner peace and a choice we make daily.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Peace<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-image1720_97f9fe-8f.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .kb-image1720_97f9fe-8f .kb-image-is-ratio-size{max-width:527px;width:100%;}.wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_97f9fe-8f.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_97f9fe-8f .kb-image-is-ratio-size{align-self:unset;}.kb-image1720_97f9fe-8f figure{max-width:527px;}.kb-image1720_97f9fe-8f .image-is-svg, .kb-image1720_97f9fe-8f .image-is-svg img{width:100%;}.kb-image1720_97f9fe-8f .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_97f9fe-8f\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/20-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Colorful abstract watercolor of a person walking on a dock with a vibrant, cloud-filled sky reflected in water.\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-1727 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/20-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/20-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/20-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/20-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/20-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/20.jpg 1600w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/1024;\" \/><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/nalahlife.etsy.com\" title=\"Nalah Life\">Nalah Life<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Someone who carries peace, tranquillity and harmony in their interactions. They work towards understanding and compromise, avoiding unnecessary conflict. Peace-filled people don\u2019t like drama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Kindness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Kind individuals are considerate and generous in their actions. They perform acts of kindness without expecting anything in return, making their loved ones feel valued and appreciated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Goodness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Goodness is evident in those who choose to do the right thing, even when it&#8217;s hard. They act with integrity and moral clarity, guiding their relationships with honesty and trust.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Faithfulness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-image1720_6f146b-d8.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .kb-image1720_6f146b-d8 .kb-image-is-ratio-size{max-width:561px;width:100%;}.wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_6f146b-d8.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_6f146b-d8 .kb-image-is-ratio-size{align-self:unset;}.kb-image1720_6f146b-d8 figure{max-width:561px;}.kb-image1720_6f146b-d8 .image-is-svg, .kb-image1720_6f146b-d8 .image-is-svg img{width:100%;}.kb-image1720_6f146b-d8 .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_6f146b-d8\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/21-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Colorful painting of a couple before a lighthouse, with swirling skies and ocean waves.\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-1728 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/21-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/21-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/21-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/21-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/21-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/21.jpg 1600w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/1024;\" \/><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/nalahlife.etsy.com\" title=\"Nalah Life\">Nalah Life<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Faithful people are reliable and loyal. They commit to their relationships, stand by their promises, and support their partners through thick and thin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Gentleness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Gentleness is shown by those who approach others with care and understanding. <strong>They are mindful of their words and actions, ensuring they do not harm others emotionally or physically. <\/strong>To learn more about the different types of abuse and red flags in a relationship <a href=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/?page_id=93\" title=\"Types of Abuse\">click here<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p><strong>They are mindful of their words and actions, ensuring they do not harm others emotionally or physically. <\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Self-Control<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Individuals with self-control manage their impulses and emotions well. They avoid actions that could negatively impact their relationships, demonstrating maturity and respect for their partners. Abusive people claim they have no self-control. This is not true. They are selective when they turn their self-control on and off. Often it\u2019s turned on when people (not you) are watching.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-323532c74ae2e2b6ca62d69a5812d97d\" style=\"font-size:30px\">The Fruits of the Spirit in a Godly Man<\/h3>\n\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id1720_3d9d0c-41 > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:start;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id1720_3d9d0c-41 > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:start;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_3d9d0c-41 > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}.kb-row-layout-id1720_3d9d0c-41 > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_3d9d0c-41 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_3d9d0c-41 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id1720_3d9d0c-41 alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-1-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-top\">\n<style>.kadence-column1720_fd4f1f-6e > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_fd4f1f-6e > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_fd4f1f-6e > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_fd4f1f-6e > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_fd4f1f-6e > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_fd4f1f-6e > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_fd4f1f-6e{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_fd4f1f-6e > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_fd4f1f-6e > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_fd4f1f-6e\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Using the fruits of the spirit as a compass, I learned to discern the true character of potential partners. A godly man will have:<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id1720_5d75d1-a3 > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:center;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id1720_5d75d1-a3 > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:center;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_5d75d1-a3 > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}.kb-row-layout-id1720_5d75d1-a3 > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_5d75d1-a3 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_5d75d1-a3 > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id1720_5d75d1-a3 aligncenter wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-2-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-middle\">\n<style>.kadence-column1720_c17023-2a > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_c17023-2a > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_c17023-2a > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_c17023-2a > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_c17023-2a > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_c17023-2a > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_c17023-2a{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_c17023-2a > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_c17023-2a > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_c17023-2a\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><style>.kb-image1720_89c691-26 .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_89c691-26\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/22-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"A tender embrace between two people on a cozy couch, in a warmly lit, artistic living room.\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-1732 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/22-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/22-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/22-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/22-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/22-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/22.jpg 1600w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/1024;\" \/><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/nalahlife.etsy.com\" title=\"Nalah Life\">Nalah Life<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column1720_8b82e3-6b > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_8b82e3-6b > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_8b82e3-6b > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_8b82e3-6b > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_8b82e3-6b > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_8b82e3-6b > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_8b82e3-6b{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_8b82e3-6b > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_8b82e3-6b > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_8b82e3-6b\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Love<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">He shows unconditional support and care for you, wanting the best for you without expecting anything in return. He tries his best to show you unconditional love (knowing no one is perfect and needs growth) just as Jesus shows us.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Joy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Shares happiness and uplifts you, even in challenging times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Peace<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">He maintains harmony, communication and understanding in the relationship. He aims to resolve conflicts with calm and respect. <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:center;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:center;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap > .wp-block-kadence-column:nth-child(1 of *:not(style)){order:2;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap > .wp-block-kadence-column:nth-child(2 of *:not(style)){order:1;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap > .wp-block-kadence-column:nth-child(3 of *:not(style)){order:12;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap > .wp-block-kadence-column:nth-child(4 of *:not(style)){order:11;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap > .wp-block-kadence-column:nth-child(5 of *:not(style)){order:22;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap > .wp-block-kadence-column:nth-child(6 of *:not(style)){order:21;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap > .wp-block-kadence-column:nth-child(7 of *:not(style)){order:32;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa > .kt-row-column-wrap > .wp-block-kadence-column:nth-child(8 of *:not(style)){order:31;}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id1720_9c7d3d-aa alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-2-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-middle\">\n<style>.kadence-column1720_146020-75 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_146020-75 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_146020-75 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_146020-75 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_146020-75 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_146020-75 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_146020-75{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_146020-75 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_146020-75 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_146020-75\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Patience<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">He gives you time to grow and heal and understands that personal development is a journey. He can show composure while waiting and doesn&#8217;t feel the need to be dramatic or explosive if things don&#8217;t go his way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Kindness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">He shows thoughtfulness and consideration through small acts of love, like preparing a meal or offering words of encouragement. He shows kind behaviour and acts towards you and other people.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column1720_7d1ae2-16 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_7d1ae2-16 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_7d1ae2-16 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_7d1ae2-16 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_7d1ae2-16 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_7d1ae2-16 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_7d1ae2-16{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_7d1ae2-16 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_7d1ae2-16 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_7d1ae2-16\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><style>.kb-image1720_98e454-a0 .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_98e454-a0\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/23-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Two people engage in a serious conversation in a sunlit, rustic kitchen\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-1733 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/23-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/23-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/23-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/23-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/23-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/23.jpg 1600w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/1024;\" \/><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/nalahlife.etsy.com\" title=\"Nalah Life\">Nalah Life<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<style>.kb-row-layout-id1720_050ad9-cd > .kt-row-column-wrap{align-content:center;}:where(.kb-row-layout-id1720_050ad9-cd > .kt-row-column-wrap) > .wp-block-kadence-column{justify-content:center;}.kb-row-layout-id1720_050ad9-cd > .kt-row-column-wrap{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);row-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-md, 2rem);padding-top:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);padding-bottom:var(--global-kb-spacing-sm, 1.5rem);grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}.kb-row-layout-id1720_050ad9-cd > .kt-row-layout-overlay{opacity:0.30;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_050ad9-cd > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:repeat(2, minmax(0, 1fr));}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kb-row-layout-id1720_050ad9-cd > .kt-row-column-wrap{grid-template-columns:minmax(0, 1fr);}}<\/style><div class=\"kb-row-layout-wrap kb-row-layout-id1720_050ad9-cd alignnone wp-block-kadence-rowlayout\"><div class=\"kt-row-column-wrap kt-has-2-columns kt-row-layout-equal kt-tab-layout-inherit kt-mobile-layout-row kt-row-valign-middle\">\n<style>.kadence-column1720_810dc7-01 > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_810dc7-01 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_810dc7-01 > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_810dc7-01 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_810dc7-01 > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_810dc7-01 > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_810dc7-01{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_810dc7-01 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_810dc7-01 > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_810dc7-01\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\"><style>.kb-image1720_eb67c3-23 .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_eb67c3-23\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1600\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/24-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Man in contemplation with a book on a bed in a serene, blue-hued room.\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-1734 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/24-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/24-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/24-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/24-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/24-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/24.jpg 1600w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1600px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1600\/1600;\" \/><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/nalahlife.etsy.com\" title=\"Nalah Life\">Nalah Life<\/a> <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<style>.kadence-column1720_3701c3-9c > .kt-inside-inner-col,.kadence-column1720_3701c3-9c > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{border-top-left-radius:0px;border-top-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-right-radius:0px;border-bottom-left-radius:0px;}.kadence-column1720_3701c3-9c > .kt-inside-inner-col{column-gap:var(--global-kb-gap-sm, 1rem);}.kadence-column1720_3701c3-9c > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;}.kadence-column1720_3701c3-9c > .kt-inside-inner-col > .aligncenter{width:100%;}.kadence-column1720_3701c3-9c > .kt-inside-inner-col:before{opacity:0.3;}.kadence-column1720_3701c3-9c{position:relative;}@media all and (max-width: 1024px){.kadence-column1720_3701c3-9c > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}@media all and (max-width: 767px){.kadence-column1720_3701c3-9c > .kt-inside-inner-col{flex-direction:column;justify-content:center;}}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-column kadence-column1720_3701c3-9c\"><div class=\"kt-inside-inner-col\">\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Goodness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">He values integrity and honesty, always choosing to do what is right for the relationship. He wants to please God first and foremost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Faithfulness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">He is committed to you. He demonstrates loyalty and trustworthiness. If he can be faithful in the small, he will be faithful with the big things in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Gentleness<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">&nbsp;He approaches you with care and compassion, especially when dealing with your or others\u2019 vulnerabilities or mistakes.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:20px\"><strong>Self-Control<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">He manages emotions and desires in a way that honours the relationship. He avoids actions that could harm you or the bond you share.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-theme-palette-1-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c1386217c85d7d84fc2d7d5dda323efa\" style=\"font-size:30px\">No One is Perfect<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">No man is perfect, and imperfections are part of being human.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">However, a consistent pattern of behaviour, values, and a life lived in alignment with God&#8217;s teachings are indicators of a godly man&#8217;s true nature.<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-image1720_5d0b4b-e9.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .kb-image1720_5d0b4b-e9 .kb-image-is-ratio-size{max-width:586px;width:100%;}.wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_5d0b4b-e9.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_5d0b4b-e9 .kb-image-is-ratio-size{align-self:unset;}.kb-image1720_5d0b4b-e9 figure{max-width:586px;}.kb-image1720_5d0b4b-e9 .image-is-svg, .kb-image1720_5d0b4b-e9 .image-is-svg img{width:100%;}.kb-image1720_5d0b4b-e9 .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_5d0b4b-e9\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/25-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"A joyful couple shares a laugh, their expressions painted in vibrant watercolors.\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-1735 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/25-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/25-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/25-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/25-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/25-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/25.jpg 1600w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/1024;\" \/><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/nalahlife.etsy.com\" title=\"Nalah Life\">Nalah Life<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Just like you, he is a work in progress, but should already have maturity in numerous of these areas. You need a godly man, not a project to build and correct.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">It\u2019s natural to feel anxious or overwhelmed by the concept of healthy love, especially after past traumas. I understand your fears. I encourage you to pray, surrendering to God&#8217;s will on this journey of healing and discovery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Find other Christian influences that you trust who can help you. I spent time on YouTube researching how to recognize a godly man, how I can attract one and how I could be a more godly woman. I like the videos by Rebecca Lynn Pope and RC Blakes Jr. They both have many videos online that helped me!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">You can also find connections and support in online or in-person survivor support groups. To join our private Facebook group <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/arminarmsurvivors\" title=\"click here\">click here<\/a> and please answer all 3 questions to be accepted. <\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-image1720_3bcb4d-1c.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .kb-image1720_3bcb4d-1c .kb-image-is-ratio-size{max-width:526px;width:100%;}.wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_3bcb4d-1c.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_3bcb4d-1c .kb-image-is-ratio-size{align-self:unset;}.kb-image1720_3bcb4d-1c figure{max-width:526px;}.kb-image1720_3bcb4d-1c .image-is-svg, .kb-image1720_3bcb4d-1c .image-is-svg img{width:100%;}.kb-image1720_3bcb4d-1c .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_3bcb4d-1c\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/26-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"A woman pensively writes in a journal at a sunlit desk surrounded by plants.\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-1736 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/26-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/26-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/26-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/26-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/26-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/26.jpg 1600w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/1024;\" \/><figcaption>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/nalahlife.etsy.com\" title=\"Nalah Life\">Nalah Life<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Journal your progress and what you are learning and experiencing. This is an excellent way to track your thoughts, emotions, your experiences and your successes. I like to look back in my journals to see how far I have come. I feel like I am moving forward, especially on the days I feel stuck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">So what does love look like? Simply put, love looks like Jesus. Love looks like his unfailing love for you, and His sacrificial demonstration of it on the cross.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">Please share this article with survivors, family, and friends to help us raise awareness of domestic violence and educate the community. (Find links at the top of the page.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">We are stronger together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p style=\"font-size:18px\">He is faithful,<\/p>\n\n\n<style>.kb-image1720_c524c8-0e.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .kb-image1720_c524c8-0e .kb-image-is-ratio-size{max-width:180px;width:100%;}.wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_c524c8-0e.kb-image-is-ratio-size, .wp-block-kadence-column > .kt-inside-inner-col > .kb-image1720_c524c8-0e .kb-image-is-ratio-size{align-self:unset;}.kb-image1720_c524c8-0e{max-width:180px;}.image-is-svg.kb-image1720_c524c8-0e{-webkit-flex:0 1 100%;flex:0 1 100%;}.image-is-svg.kb-image1720_c524c8-0e img{width:100%;}.kb-image1720_c524c8-0e .kb-image-has-overlay:after{opacity:0.3;}<\/style>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-kadence-image kb-image1720_c524c8-0e size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" data-src=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Elegant-Circle-Photographer-Signature-Initials-Logo.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"kb-img wp-image-996 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Elegant-Circle-Photographer-Signature-Initials-Logo.png 500w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Elegant-Circle-Photographer-Signature-Initials-Logo-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/analahlife.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/Elegant-Circle-Photographer-Signature-Initials-Logo-150x150.png 150w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 500px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 500\/500;\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Easter illuminates the most beautiful example of love and sacrifice, showing us exactly what love looks&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1722,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,3,81],"tags":[89,90,40,34,83,85,88,86,84,82,87],"class_list":["post-1720","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-domestic-violence","category-faith","category-trauma-recovery","tag-christian-love","tag-christian-marriage","tag-christianity","tag-domestic-violence-awareness","tag-easter-message","tag-fruits-of-the-spirit","tag-galatians-522","tag-healthy-relationships","tag-jesus-sacrifice","tag-love-looks-like","tag-spiritual-growth"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1720","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1720"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1720\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1746,"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1720\/revisions\/1746"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1722"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1720"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1720"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/analahlife.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1720"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}